Good evening.
This time, I've put together the outputs of the learning I gained from the matchmaking seminar I attended the other day
(∩´∀`)∩ (∩´∀`)∩)
It's been quite a bit off, so
I'm looking forward to hearing comments like " You're out there! "
How can you increase your likeability through LINE (email)?
First of all, LINE (email) is conversation
Men tend to be
businesswoman Even when I receive an invitation email, I end up saying, "Agree."
However, women want to communicate and enjoy it as a conversation.
So it's important to match that.
Characteristics of men's LINE (email)
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- It's not so cool
- I'm thinking too much about replying and can't reply. . .
- I'm communicating
I end up saying, "Yes, I understand!"
Maybe I could give back "Yay! I'm looking forward to it!"
Things you should not do via LINE (email)
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- Me
- pride
- Criticism and denial
out, " Ore Tsushin "
or "I ate steak today," I end up saying things like, "Huh, that's why?"
Also, this is the "criticism and denial" that I often do,
which is really bad. I'm hated all at once. i am sad.
Why don't I get a LINE email reply?
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- I'm not interested in you
- I'm not interested in what you're sending
- I've forgotten in the first place
I'm not interested. . . Yes, they don't respond even if they're not interested.
It's just a nuisance to be forced to do something that you're not interested in.
I've done all of this. I'm no good
How can you make a good impression via LINE (email)?
So what should I do? (If you get a reply)
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- Reply on the same day (with a pillow line)
- Expressing emotions
- Adjust the timing to send
- Match the tone with your opponent
"answer" + "question"
to the other person , and then express emotion + (empathy, consent, exclamation) + questions
I wonder if it's like, "Wow, you went to Disney! It's fun! What kind of attraction was there?"
What are the key points to increase your likeability on a date?
If you can invite someone to go on a date via LINE (email), then the next step is to take.
How can you increase your likeability?
Have the spirit of Give!
women feel "value" depending on
hard they spend their time and money on themselves When I was invited to a cheap izakaya, I was like, "Ah, that's about me..."
So there are some things you need to prepare in advance.
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- Find out what women want to eat and make a reservation
- Decide what clothes to wear
- Prepare conversation stock
Another matchmaking teacher told me about preparing for the conversation too, right?
I desperately read the profile that was given to me on the day I was looking for a matchmaking service.
It would be a problem if you only write "Please"!
Check your clothes for stains
The restaurant is about the atmosphere and taste.
The atmosphere is good and the taste is good.
summary
When it comes to LINE (email),
you need to listen carefully to the other person's conversation and reaction "
to that .
And " sympathize " and answer questions.
Of course, it's interesting.
Try to adjust your speaking pace to your opponent.
Do your research thoroughly when it comes to dates.
I have little experience on dates, so in times like this, it might be a good idea to ask someone with a lot of experience.
Also, what have you enjoyed having your boyfriend up until now? I think it would be a good idea to ask someone close to you.
Let's communicate via LINE or email, feeling like enjoying conversation.
And it would be great if you could enjoy your dates too.
That's it, Yukki.