There are many places where parents, school teachers, and workplace leaders do double binding.
There are also many martial arts, dance schools, music classes, and sports clubs.
What's so cruel is the people who belong to such people.
Double binding is the process of giving contradictory messages to others to make them confused or unsettled.
Please refer to the following.
What is double binding?
(Example)
When a parent says "Come" and their child approaches, he pushes him away, saying "Don't approach!"
When the boss asks him, "Ask anything you understand," and replies, "Think for yourself!",
the parent says, "You can order what you like," and denys that it's not good because it's expensive."
I guess it's something like this.
You'd actually be disgusted if something like this was done.
It would be a shame to start to think things like, "I shouldn't have asked,"
"I should have asked," and
"I was an idiot when I heard it."
I think the most common reason for double binding is "self-defense," but
some people simply don't have the knowledge.
That means you're stupid.
(It seems like Horiemon's book had something to say "Don't date an idiot")
Well, what I'm trying to say is that if you're in that situation, you should leave immediately.
This is not a "run."
It's fine to say what you want to say and fight, but
my motto is "Don't fight, don't follow," so I'll leave immediately.
So I'm leaving.
thank you very much.
