From dating to confession to proposals, we summarize the secrets to success

I recently attended a seminar.
I participate with excitement and a lot of insights every time.

The course was also over the course of the day, so it was very rich in content.

I would like to output the content again this time.

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Five types of affection expressions

Each person has a type of love expression that touches them in their hearts.

There are five main patterns:

Word Type

He is the type of person who feels affection when he is directly told such as " I love you " or " I love you

If you have a girlfriend who often asks you, "Do you like me?", you're the type.
Let's keep saying things.

Skinship type

truly the type of person who feels affection when
touches Is it possible to touch the body, and it's close?

I might actually be here! Wow

Time sharing type

He is the type of person who feels love when he shares and enjoys the time he spends together.

The same hobbies are the outdoors, for example.

There are families in the neighborhood who go out somewhere with their families every weekend, and this is probably the case.

Service type

He is the type who feels love when he is devoted to it.
Something is done to help others, such as helping them.

I'm the type who feels love for such things.

He's also full of service spirit.

Gift type

It's exactly like that.

He is the type of person who feels love when he receives things such as gifts.

Don't just keep receiving it, don't forget to say thank you when you receive it ^^

Both are easy to understand and interact with each other if they are the same type.
Conversely, if you are a different type of person, you need to be careful when asking things.

It doesn't affect me when I give it as a word type, and even though I want to share my time, it doesn't affect me when I get verbally attacked.
Let's tailor it to the other person ^^

It would be great to be a joke when you ask.

About Confession

After going on a date, it's finally time to confess.

They often say to confess their feelings to you on your third date.
However, this is the case when you can do it " smoothly " three times.
If you think it's still a little longer, try repeating it a little more.

Three important factors

When confessing, there are three important factors.
it is,

The feeling is obviously rather than a word.
the incident happen yourself .
For example, a surprise when she's getting excited when she's on a no-plan date! That's what?
If you feel like that, try limousine and cruising too!

Timing is also important.
You could do it when you part ways, just after meeting, or in the crowd.
Let's get the right timing.

Why you can confess your feelings

Why are you allowed to confess your feelings in the first place?

There are three main reasons for this

It's great to be loved by you.
I wonder if I'll like it? That's also proof that it has a very good impression.

In cases where people lose to push, there may be many women who look like masochistic.
Maybe I'll use the suspension bridge effect lol

And as for the confession, let's keep it simple

"I love you, so please
go out with me." "Be my girlfriend."

Just make it clear and simple.

As a small joke, it seems that speaking to your left ear will resonate with your emotions!

If you confess your feelings, you can't. . .

I confessed with courage, but was rejected. . . .

(´；ω；`)

But there are words that can be recovered at times like this.

「Do you have another chance?」

This is a line I often hear on Monday 9th.
I want to say it.

Anyway, how can you move someone else's heart?
Think about it and act on it!

Learn about your own negative beliefs

Beliefs are like your own assumptions.

If you were to give a reason why you couldn't have a girlfriend, what kind of words would you say?
In my case,
1.
2.
I'm not good at talking 3
because I'm fat 4.
Because my income is low 5 because I'm an old man Because I'm not confident

That's what happens.

All of these are "assumptions"
and are not the case in reality.

It is important to convert the above 1 to 5 into positives and turn them into stories.

For example, he is bad at talking → He is a good listener
and is fat → He is a gentle man with a gentle personality
→ He has plenty of life experience and can lead anything

is.
There is a good way to do that.

"Writing on paper .
This makes it objective, and as I write it, it becomes more troublesome and doesn't matter.

What is the secret to success in both marriage and work?

Well, you want to succeed in everything, right?
There is something called the secret to that.

That's to not think about whether you can or can't!
Both are illusions. It's a fantasy.

I've also been bad at women in the past and have been criticized by bad things about women.
From there, I added the meaning of "be careful because women will do bad things."

So when I talk to a woman, I think that I can't entertain myself or that it's boring.

But it is an "illusion, delusion" and something that does not exist.

If you are dragged by this illusion, you will be in a state of "doing nothing" and will not succeed.

Success can become reality by imagining it.
It's a reality based on image.

If you imagine it, your body will move. And the results will be successful.
And the faster you act wins.

When the relationship actually begins

I've gone off topic a bit, but what should I do if I actually start dating?
That's what you're thinking.

It seems that there are some couples who break up quickly after dating.
The main reasons are:
1. The distance between your heart is getting farther.
2. It changes drastically
3. I'm being too careful

Once a man is determined to date, that tends to be the goal.
And even though he was so proactive, he suddenly ended up not baiting the fish he caught.

Also, the most common among people who are not confident is the case where they "worship them."
That's how I felt. This is really no good.

Now, here are three important keywords.

Consider this keyword "COO".

"Communication"
This is the type that changes drastically when you start dating.
As I said earlier, it is divided into two categories: "We will no longer be able to feed the fish we catch."
Take care.

"Memories" is important.
You don't have to do anything big.
Women remember very little tiny events.
Those who share time are particularly important to them.

What is "compassion"?
What is the difference between kindness and compassion?

According to one theory, helping someone in need is "kindness."
Will that person continue to be healthy after that? Thinking about this
is "compassion.
In other words, about thinking from the other person's perspective .

By taking care of these "COOs," I think it's possible to avoid breaking up as soon as you date them.

Furthermore, it would be effective to write about what image you would like to date in the future.

About the proposal

Now, finally, propose!
Say it in clear, memorable words.

Timing is also important.

Here is the three-piece set you will need.

Of course, it's an engagement ring.
The seminars can't tell you apart from engagement rings ! There was a lot of excitement when asked about this.

Actually, I didn't know either. Ahaha!

Timing is important, but how do you know?
Make sure to bite a jab on a regular basis!
Let's determine that reaction.

Conversely, it may be a good time if she frequently talks about her friend's marriage.

If you have Zexy on the table, come on!

There are many different ways to propose, but according to research, it seems that simple is definitely better.
"Marry me,"
this is it.

It's not okay to say "Would you get married?" - you're being looked down upon.

Also, it seems that " Flash Mob " is dangerous as a production.
I don't know what it is but lol

Location is also important.
It's strictly forbidden to have ticket gates at stations.
Of course, the roadside.

I really want to have a wonderful restaurant with a night view.
It's a course meal, and it's probably best to have a good time after the last dessert.

Please make it a wonderful memory.

summary

So, I, who don't even have a girlfriend yet, spoke so arrogantly, how did you say it?

You do your best! I think I'm going to say that lol

Anyway, think from the other person's point of view.

Keep an image of success.

Thinking about what to do if someone dislikes you is your own perspective.

I have to go through the number of opportunities to find a match and exchange contact information as soon as possible.

This is the last seminar, and it was very educational.

Above all, I was told that the perspective of things has changed and the atmosphere has become softer.

I would like to use these experiences to find a wonderful partner.

Thank you, Teacher!

It was Taiko!