How to find your own diamonds 20 questions to discover your valuable self

February 4, 2019 February 4, 2019

Taiko

What is your own diamond?

What is
your own diamond again like self-center that you (you) have to yourself

In other words, if you can say clearly, " I am a man (female)! ", then that is what I can call myself a diamond.

For example,
" I'm a man with a strong intellectual curiosity, "
or
" I'm a woman who likes to make everyone smile. "

Only a few percent of people can say that.
So why has no one ever been able to have a "real selves"?

Why you don't notice your diamond

that the reason why most people are no longer popular with their true selves is because of
their relationships It's true that I have also various biases from my parents and have taken them in.

- Don't trust others
- what will it be like to challenge them?
・Say everything is silly

The influence of those around you will unwittingly start to worry about what others think.
I thought I would end up creating my own self for others

Important things are things, but also the heart

I've been taking a seminar recently, and every teacher has a common saying.

It's about valuing the mind

At first I was thinking, " What is it a mental theory ?", but no matter how much technique or thing you use, it won't last long.
Conversely, by acting on the basis of mindset, I was able to feel a variety of positive results.

In everything, a "mind" is important at the foundation.

First,
it is important to find your own diamond , find your purpose in life , and clarify your ideals

How to find your own diamond

So how do you find your own diamond?
That's when you think, Is it okay to just keep going like this?

Something is different. . . That is " glasses that you think of ."

In my case, I love programming and am an engineer, but it doesn't really fit.
It's kind of different. . . When I thought about it that way, I suddenly thought of it.

I don't like the program itself, I like to create it and entertain everyone .
You have to work hard every day overtime, or study hard to improve your skills.
I could abandon this idea.

When you think about it that way, your goal to "enjoy people ," and your current way of thinking about work will change.

So, I'm currently looking for
a job where I can work remotely as a freelance and do my best to do my best I also think it's great to create it yourself.

It also has the effect of past failure experiences

In the first place, the human brain hates changing.
This past failure experiences .

In my case, when I was little, my mother would draw pictures of me, but for some reason I let it go.
Since then, for some reason, my feelings of apologies towards others have been given priority.

has been resonating with girls who groaned in elementary school, saying things like " pathetic " and " unreliable

That's why I decide that
I'm not good However, I had 20 questions in this book to find my own diamond, so I answered them.
Then I felt like I was able to see my true self.

What are the 20 questions to discover a valuable self?

I can't write about it specifically, but why do I want to find my own diamond in the first place?
What happens if you find it?　 Conversely, what happens if you don't find it?
What kind of life will there be?

It seems like I'm going to deepen the questions.

Dreams and bitter memories from when I was little.

Things that are happy and sad that those around me have been given to me.

What did that give me?

You can think about that carefully.

My thoughts after reading "20 Questions to Meet Your Valuable Self"

This time, I read this book and it came straight into my mind.
This is the first time I've read it all in one day.

Finding your own diamond
is not something you discover new, but something you have from the beginning.

we will firmly create
mind of our goal and ideal By doing so, I felt that I was able to create a self that doesn't shake

Humans tend to seek immediate profits and tend to use techniques.
But even if you achieve success with that, it won't last long and your heart won't be satisfied.
It could mean "it wasn't like this."

That's why the mind is important.

have been taught
by my respected teachers
" 80% of people are mindful and 20% are technology " The same goes for Aikido, and it is a martial art that can only be achieved through spirituality.

Finally, my diamond

is "I am a gentle, sincere, cheerful, and loved by everyone."

Maybe it's quite a big deal? No, that's what's important.

Finally, I would like to thank everyone who read it.
Why not try to clarify your own diamond and spend your days full of energy?

I recommend you read this book first.